How Asian Family Patterns Affect Your Worth and Financial Abundance
Even if one Asian generation is passing on wealth to the next generation, the abundance transference will be distorted if they are, at the same time, passing on messages and lessons of unworthiness, prostituting one’s sovereignty to others, and the camouflaging of vigilance as virtue.
The Frost before the Buds of Growth
This is the original maze. The incarnational maze. We all get set up with these trick mirrors that bring illusions and the side doors that lead us for another detour. My maze was believing that all I could ever be, all I could ever hope for, was to be accepted amongst my Asian family and community. Wandering in the maze, I was willing to give up my body, my soul, and my dreams to feel what I thought was ‘Love’.
Chinese American Family Cut Offs
The distortion of the family unit being more important than your life has origins in the principles that Confucius on-record listed of Ritual 禮 pronounced “Li” and Filial Piety 孝順 pronounced “Xiao Shun”. On surface-level read, it seems to be a nice theoretical concept. However, when we incorporate the understanding that this world order placed men above women and chronologically older people above those who have incarnated later, we run into oppressive constructs of patriarchy and scarcity mindset/territorialism.